Girls talk, everyone knows that. Unlike men, girls tend to share about everything that is going on in their lives with their friends. This is the reason why some chronic diseases like high blood pressure. depression and so many more are hardly associated with women. Like i like to say, therapy is way cheaper than ice cream, because talking to your friends is the only free therapy you are gonna get in this capitalist world we are living in today.
In 2025, would you rather spend thousands of your hard earned money visiting a completely stranger in the name of a therapist or would you rather talk to your girls over a lunch date?
As much as talking helps, do you think girls tend to overshare sometimes? With girl gangs, casual talks when hanging out does not always have to be about the weather, it drifts so fast to sexual encounters. Normally, girl talk is always 50% boys, 40% shopping and trendy fashion in the streets. and 10% other stuff. In my opinion, i don’t think talking about your sexual encounters to your girls is over sharing, to some point, it does feel like over sharing.
Don’t expect me to tell you how good in bed my man is, girls can be vultures! I wouldn’t surprised if one or two decide to get the experience from the horses’ mouth, like hey! You can’t be happy alone, we wanna experience this happiness too!
Speaking from experience and being a member of a girl gang, talking about sex life has been of help. Everyone has had their own different sexual experience, and finding out that you are not in this alone gives you a sense of belonging.
Also, learning about other new sexual encounters helps a lot especially when you finally meet the encounter: trust me, you wouldn’t freak out because hey! Yo already know this was an option too.
I used to brag to my friends about never having to encounter a one minute guy (you get it? If you don’t get it, forget about it). Them sharing their experiences helped because if you have a high sex libido, trust me, you don’t wanna meet this type of guy.
When i finally met this guy, well, i was not very surprised because i already knew i had a risk of having this encounter, and i think i managed the situation well thanks to my friends’ sex life experiences talk (if blocking him and changing the route counts).
Also, sharing about your sex life helps you know where you are going wrong, you don’t have to visit your gynecologist when you have girls who can give you a girl talk! It helps you bond, strengthens your relationship and builds trust.
What’s better than your girls teaching you more about bedroom affairs and new sexual positions you might want to try?
You should be supportive of your friends and you might wank to risk the broach of listening to their sexual encounters and helping them where you can.
While people enjoy talking freely about their sex lives, in some cases, it might be uncomfortable. Extroverts have been known to enjoy talking about their sex lives because it energizes them and helps them socialize.
As for introverts, this might be a big problem and to them, considered oversharing (that is why when you go out partying and start sharing about your life experiences , not everyone will be welcoming and friendly, leave alone open to listening to you).
Another instance where girl talk can be oversharing is when a party is complaining about their sex life- low sex libido, the man cannot last more than a minute when having sex, or he just generally doesn’t know what he is doing when it comes to sex. Now this is airing your dirty in public.
If this is the same man you are planning to build a future with, then you might want your friends to respect this man. Telling them the down side to your sexual life will not just bring the little respect they had for him down, but also, they will not consider him man enough.
This is a discussion you need to have with your partner rather than “releasing” it to your friend who would probably laugh behind your back. In my opinion, sharing your sex life is only applicable if it is your ex or a one night stand you are talking about, not your current partner (unless you are planning on dumping him) or a future husband!
The bottom line is, it is up to you to decide what you want to tell your friends about. If you feel like talking about your sex life is okay, then so be it.
Just because you like over sharing about your sex life only means you are none judgmental about sex and you are comfortable with your sexual identity and the sexual behavior of others.
