Love or Career: Striking the Balance and Prioritizing Your Happiness
I wont spend so much time on this article though I know the topic is very controversial. so when asked which do you prefer to come first; Love or career, the answer will differ and since no such research has been done before, I will give my opinion which might come out as advice. This article is in no way insinuating that i am a career or relationship coach but rather just a writer who is interested in sharing his thoughts with the community.
Now, Love or career, Bluntly, it will depend on the gender and the part of the world where you are. If you are in Africa, then if you are a lady and are interested in pursuing a career, then i will advice you to kickstart with your career before loving someone so deeply. starting with your career as a lady will save you a great deal in your relationship. I advice women during this 21st century to look for career success fast because majority of the men will be reluctant in helping you pursue career and financial success when married to them. You see, when it comes to most men, they love to control and many will not like having a woman who they cannot control. On the contrary, if they found you having a successful career with enough money to sustain yourself, it will be hard for them to change you. This is why you need to gain financial knowledge and acquire financial freedom at a young age.
On the other hand, if you are a man, It will be good to start with love if you are interested in securing a loving and caring wife. You see, when you are all successful with a lot of money, many women will like you because of what you have and not who you are. Starting from the bottom with a woman who loves who you are can be the greatest gift you can get. It is the foundation of a strong relationship and eventually a very good family.