Do you give your partner an opportunity to respond and ask questions? Do you speak about the DOs and DON’Ts of your sex life? Have Erectile Dysfunction ever rang a bell? Are you comfortable with how your partner performs in bed? Are you confident that you satisfy her?
Erectile dysfunction (impotence) is the inability to get and keep an erection firm enough for sex. It can be a sign of a physical or psychological condition. It can cause stress, relationship strain and low self-confidence. The main symptom is a man’s inability to get or keep an erection firm enough for sexual intercourse.
This has become a major blow to many relationships. When you finally get a man and jump in ecstasy that you are officially off the market, erectile dysfunction (ED) is never on the table. It never comes in mind that it can be an option. When he starts treating you right and each day you fall more in love with him than the other, you never expect that such a sweet man can have this problem.
I will tell you about my encounter with a man who had erectile dysfunction. I met this guy, we will call him John Doe, at my sexual prime age. He was the man from my dreams, a gentleman, a good listener, always there for me, and willing to wait till am ready for the sex (Let us be honest ladies, we all want this man). When i finally was ready to let him taste the waters of my well, i find out that he has erectile dysfunction! I was disappointed, angry and most importantly horny. And yes, i walked out and never came back because who am i kidding? My sexual urge is above the waters so i can’t deal with an ED. I never spoke about it with him, and that is the biggest regret i have today. (I know you all want to know how i calmed my waters that day, but follow Ctone Media and i will tell you guys about it)
That aside, there are so many questions that pop up when you talk about erectile dysfunction especially with your partner. If he is experiencing ED and unlike me, you stayed and you are in this together, then you definitely wanna read the answers to some of your questions below:
Can a relationship survive erectile dysfunction?
Yes! In many cases, ED is treatable. A range of effective treatments can restore sexual function, thereby improving satisfaction in a relationship. A doctor can help couples understand their options, and they will often encourage both partners to attend appointments.
How do I talk to my partner about erectile dysfunction?
Erectile dysfunction can be difficult to understand if you haven’t experienced it yourself. DON’T assign blame or make excuses:
- Explain your medical condition in a clear and truthful way. …
- Discuss treatment options with your partner.
- Explore alternative techniques to receive sexual pleasure.
- Keep the lines of communication open.
- Consider couples counseling.
ED is a medical condition, not a sign of weakness. DO tell your partner how they can be supportive and how they can help you.
How do couples deal with erectile dysfunction?
Try not to focus on your ED when you’re getting intimate with your partner. Instead, enjoy the time you have together. Deep breathing exercises may help you relax. Massage techniques may also bring you simple pleasure and relaxation through touch.
Can a man with erectile dysfunction get a woman pregnant?
Yes, it’s possible to become pregnant ANYTIME you have unprotected sex. Even though you only had intercourse for a few seconds and your bf did not ejaculate and release “semen”, it’s possible that “pre-ejaculation” was released. Pre-ejaculation or “pre-cum” is a fluid that can contain sperm from previous ejaculations.
Most of the time, men with erectile dysfunction aren’t able to have sex and therefore cannot get their partners pregnant. However, if you’re able to maintain an erection long enough to have sexual intercourse, you may still be able to get your partner pregnant.
At what age do guys have trouble getting hard?
The most common sexual problem in men as they age is erectile dysfunction (ED). In general, the younger a man is, the better his sexual function will be. About 40% of men are affected by erectile dysfunction at age 40, and nearly 70% of men are affected by ED by the time they turn 70.
Is erectile dysfunction a reason to break up?
It’s a tricky subject and a lot of guys are not comfortable owning up to performance problems in the bedroom, which makes addressing and treating erectile dysfunction (ED) a minefield of sorts. It can cause stress, shatter a man’s self-confidence and contribute to the breakdown of a relationship
What is the main cause of erectile dysfunction?
The main causes of erectile dysfunction include psychological and health conditions, medications, trauma and lifestyle factors. Penile erection is a complex process in which the brain, nerves, muscles and blood vessels play a major role. In addition, hormones and emotions are at work.